Hi!

So last night l went on a date with this great woman l had been talking to on this internet.We really hit it off and one thing led to another and, although l know it was not a good idea to do this without knowing her better, she performed oral sex on me.

So what is the real deal about oral sex?l could theoretically have gotten pretty much any STD, right?Wow, that makes me really nervous.Could somebody please help explain what risk l am at now and how l can tell if l should seek medical attention?Am l just absurdly paranoid?

Thanks!
(there was no condom on the oral sex...)

Was there a condom?

It is always better to go and search medical attention, even if it is a bit too late.

although the risk should be minimal, there are a number of stds you could have aquired, and her being a complete stranger also adds to the belief of this. if you have sexual encounters on a regular basis, it is useful to consult your gp often to stay clear of anything.

Some STDs can be transmitted to a man through oral sex, and others cannot.

Any time you have sex with a stranger you take a risk of catching a disease. Since she blew you on your first date, presumably she is a sl.ut so the chances of her having a disease are even greater.

If all that happened was oral sex then you can not catch a STD because the only bodily fluids that came from her is saliva and STD is cant be caught through that! Hope l have put your mind at rest! ignore what grey bear says as it took 2 and u were jut as easy as she was!

There is always that chance. Her mouth saliva through previous sexual encounters can transmit STDS. Even if she spits on your penis and gives you a hand job. Through it is less likely than traditional sex it still can happen. Consider her saliva as body fluids- no difference.
Calie is wrong- it is still her body fluids on your penis.

If this person had a cold sore (Herpes) on her lip, you could get it on your manhood. Just be careful next time in the heat of the moment. Good Luck