for years, and trusted them, and they gave you genital herpes and warts, how would you react, what if this person was someone who you were infatuated with, but they didnt tell you beforehand. What could you do, what would you do.

l would seriously question their relationship with me. That just is not right.

l would feel very betrayed and angry. l would not want to be around someone who is not truthful with me .

Anger is not the best way to deal with things.

l know that is hard to do in ur situation, & to tell u the true l would not know how l would handle it, if it was me.

l would probably be angry at the person for a while, but l would have to blame myself for my poor judgment & lack of awareness for my health.

We say this time & time again, that with stds u can not tell who has them or not, so u have to be extremely cautious with who you're sleeping with.

But, in ur case that is a lesson that u had to learn the hard way.

Note that having herpes & hpv is not fun; however, do realize that people have worst cases than you.

Do note fall into the victim mentally, because that is not going to get u anywhere.

So vent ur frustrations for a while & try to move on. Go to counseling, seek out help, also go to ur local parenthood they have group sessions for people with herpes & hpv.

There at those sessions u can talk with people who r just like you, if that would make u feel any better.

Just note that you're not alone & that there r people out there who care about you, u just have to care about yourself.

You can choose to accept herpes & hpv & live with it, or u can choose & alternative route.

Your journey is up to u & only you.

So look within, live, learn, love, & try to find God.

My husband`s ex girlfriend didn`t tell him she had the virus. He caught it from her & she still would not admit she transmitted it to him. She accused him of cheating instead of owning up to the fact she has the virus. But he never slept with anyone else while in the relationship & he comes up positive for the virus?? Anyhow to make a long story short, she transmitted to her current husband, ( we heard through the grapevine).so we know she`s not trustworthy to tell or reveal she has the virus. But she has a long history of sexual partners.